My dear friend, Jeanie, convinced me to start writing again, so here I am. When I started this blog nearly four years ago, I did so to document my journey through bariatric surgery, better known as gastric bypass.
It's been four years on August 5, and I've kept most of the 145 pounds off. I have gained three pounds, but I'm totally comfortable with that. I wear between a medium and a large top, a small in some knit pants, and a 12 or 14 in dresses and jeans. My hair is longer than it's ever been; I have a new tattoo on my wrist; I shop at Rue 21 (where I find great bargains--$2 tops?!) and two weeks ago, I pierced my nose!
So...this blog is no longer about losing weight. I'll be glad to answer any questions about weight loss surgery, of course, but my new focus is on the IDGAFs and how YOU can get a case of them, too.
For those of you who aren't sure what "IDGAF" means, it means "I don't give a F**K." I think calling it the IDGAFs is a little more polite, but truth be told, no matter what you call it, it's the ONLY way to live your life.
We spend SO much of our lives worrying about what other people think. Why? Eleanor Roosevelt said, “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” She also said, “You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.”
Brilliant woman, that Eleanor. She was said to be "less than attractive" but that didn't keep her from being the powerful, articulate, inspiring woman she was.
And whatever YOUR perceived flaw(s), it/they shouldn't stop you either! I truly have stopped worrying about what other people think. I'm living life for the first time, I think. I go to amusement parks and ride the most ridiculously scary roller coasters. I wear knee-length skirts after hiding my "fat" for years. I smile at strangers. I've always wanted to pierce my nose--I bought little magnetic fakes and even the type of stones that one glues on. Finally, I did it. And I LOVE it. I've bought jewelry to switch out when it's time, and I can't wait.
Stop waiting for others' consent--real or perceived. Life is short. LIVE it. One of my friends said of a Facebook photo that I keep "getting cuter." I told her it's because I'm living--perhaps for the first time in my life. And I am.
I want to hear that YOU are, too. I'm back, people...I hope you're glad to have me here, but of course, I write this for myself (and maybe Jeanie...) so if you don't like it, well...IDGAF. :-) But then you knew that, right?
Have a great day! AND LIVE.
It's been four years on August 5, and I've kept most of the 145 pounds off. I have gained three pounds, but I'm totally comfortable with that. I wear between a medium and a large top, a small in some knit pants, and a 12 or 14 in dresses and jeans. My hair is longer than it's ever been; I have a new tattoo on my wrist; I shop at Rue 21 (where I find great bargains--$2 tops?!) and two weeks ago, I pierced my nose!
So...this blog is no longer about losing weight. I'll be glad to answer any questions about weight loss surgery, of course, but my new focus is on the IDGAFs and how YOU can get a case of them, too.
For those of you who aren't sure what "IDGAF" means, it means "I don't give a F**K." I think calling it the IDGAFs is a little more polite, but truth be told, no matter what you call it, it's the ONLY way to live your life.
We spend SO much of our lives worrying about what other people think. Why? Eleanor Roosevelt said, “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” She also said, “You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.”
Brilliant woman, that Eleanor. She was said to be "less than attractive" but that didn't keep her from being the powerful, articulate, inspiring woman she was.
And whatever YOUR perceived flaw(s), it/they shouldn't stop you either! I truly have stopped worrying about what other people think. I'm living life for the first time, I think. I go to amusement parks and ride the most ridiculously scary roller coasters. I wear knee-length skirts after hiding my "fat" for years. I smile at strangers. I've always wanted to pierce my nose--I bought little magnetic fakes and even the type of stones that one glues on. Finally, I did it. And I LOVE it. I've bought jewelry to switch out when it's time, and I can't wait.
Stop waiting for others' consent--real or perceived. Life is short. LIVE it. One of my friends said of a Facebook photo that I keep "getting cuter." I told her it's because I'm living--perhaps for the first time in my life. And I am.
I want to hear that YOU are, too. I'm back, people...I hope you're glad to have me here, but of course, I write this for myself (and maybe Jeanie...) so if you don't like it, well...IDGAF. :-) But then you knew that, right?
Have a great day! AND LIVE.
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