I know I said I was taking a hiatus from dating, but I had dinner yesterday with a very nice man. Joe brought me red roses and was an absolute gentleman. He opened my car door, the restaurant door, helped me out of the booth at the restaurant, and so on. He was very chatty, but it was nice to get to know him better. He and I met online, and he was quick to say how nice it was to meet someone who looked JUST like her photos. Of course, my photos are recent!! He has met two other women (he's new to online dating)who had displayed OLD photographs. (In browsing profiles, I've seen photos that were dated 1994! Why would anyone misrepresent themselves that way?)
While we were eating, he asked to see me again, and I said yes. We went to Long Horn Steakhouse, where I'd never been. I ordered the parmesan-crusted chicken, which was two grilled chicken breasts COVERED with cheese, and mashed potatoes with a Caesar salad. I ate a few bites of my salad, a small slice of the crusty wheat bread and about 2/3 of the one of the chicken breasts together with a few bites of mashed potatoes. It was really delicious.
Joe is NOTHING like any of the men I've ever dated. He's quite a bit older than I, VERY Southern and pretty well off financially. Totally not my type, which may be that he IS my type completely! I'm going to see him again and see what happens. Why not?
I've lost another four pounds--I'm now about 13 pounds heavier than I was in high school. I'm probably a smaller size than high school; the weight isn't a very good indicator as I have so much loose skin. (Ugh. I should ask all my readers to send me a few dollars so I can pay for plastic surgery! LOL!)
Saturday, I went to Wilmington to spend the day with Shannon, my ex's granddaughter. God, I love that kid! When I was in NY last month, I bought her a Tinkerbell lamp--she loves Tink, and she loved the gift. She and I and her grandmother, Nina, went to lunch (where Nina and I shared the greasiest fish I've ever eaten) and then to the movies to see The Odd Life of Timothy Green. I won't spoil the plot for anyone who hasn't seen it, but very early on, I saw the direction in which it was going and started crying like a baby! By the end of the movie, I had gone through four tissues and a wad of napkins! Nina cried toward the end, too, but Shannon just seemed to enjoy herself.
I was freezing in the movie theatre. Part of my problem is my thyroid--I have a hard time adjusting to temperature. The other thing, of course, is that I've lost 127 pounds of padding! I have purchased a few light wraps over the past couple months--little "cardigans" to shield myself, but I didn't take it into the movie! I DID take it with me to the restaurant yesterday--thank goodness, because the place was freezing! It's been super hot here the past few days, and the contrast between the outside temperature and the inside temperature is just too hard to deal with!
It's Labor Day, which means autumn isn't far behind. I'm glad--I have some new fall clothing that I really want to wear! And maybe if it gets a little cooler, my 4th period students will be more inclined to do some work. I'm spending MY Labor Day working--I have quite a bit of school work to do and my house is a mess. I hope you're spending yours doing something at least a LITTLE entertaining. Have a great day, and as always, thanks for reading!