I'm discovering that the answer to that question for me is me. I have been feeling really well--better about myself, but also physically feeling well. I'm not focusing on a relationship with anyone else because I'm really enjoying my relationship with myself! I have always enjoyed my own company--I have no problem going to the movies alone or to dinner by myself--but it's different now. I'm doing a few things that I'm proud of--and not all related to my weight loss. I love that I'm taking care of myself more, that I'm participating in NaNoWriMo. Don't get me wrong--I love the fact that I continue to lose weight--I'm becoming more active and feeling better physically. I have more energy. I love my free time, I love the job, I love the weather...I just love living these days.
And it's a great feeling--loving life!